接受儿童精神科住院治疗:父母的观点

我们的故事是这样的，我的儿子亨特是收养的，父母都服用冰毒，母亲一直服用到他出生那天，这样她就可以在她没有监护权的姐姐的同一天生下他。他出生的那天，我在场，欣喜若狂，再次成为祖母，然后CPS打来电话，说她的检测呈阳性，让我和我丈夫带他去。在没有任何警告的情况下，我们不得不去医院，开始和一个新生儿呆在一起，因为她3天后出院了，我们要远离他，这样她就不会和他建立联系。我和我丈夫轮流在医院陪他，因为他一次只睡一个小时，而你会花大部分时间试图让他吃1盎司的配方奶粉。3岁时，他的脾气开始变得无法控制，我们请医生给他做了多动症的测试，因为他的爸爸(我的儿子)做了也无济于事。我们被告知，这么小的孩子不可能表现出多动症的迹象。所以我们把儿科医生换成了愿意听我们的。我们给他做了评估，果然在他4岁的时候就确诊了。但是儿科医生不给他开任何药。我们不得不等到他5岁时才带他去看心理医生。 Once we saw the psychiatrist she also diagnosed him with ODD and DMDD and by the time he is 7 now I seem to be the target of his anger. Any time anyone makes him mad or upset he takes it out on me. His other biological grandmother who we call the (Disney Grandma) because she buys him everything and he doesn't act bad around, tells me that "I am the adult and I should not be letting him hit me or abuse me". She just doesn't get it because she doesn't live it everyday of her life. I just wish i could give her a clue. We got a second opinion and he suggested having him committed in a behavioral hospital for a while so they can detox him of his medication, watch his behaviors, watch his eating habits, anger triggers and adjust his medication but we are afraid of the horror stories we have heard where they have kept people's children once they have gone in and not let them go because they had insurance. Told the parents they have no Rights. Take in mind we live in Texas. Any advice would be helpful;

我有一个8岁的弟弟，他真的很失控，我只是害怕和他呆在一起。他总是对一切都很生气，当他生气的时候，这个网站就不好看了。当他生气的时候，他会决定从窗户跳出去“自杀”，或者他决定打开门，在汽车行驶的时候跑到街上去。知道他因为一点小事就想要结束自己的生命真的很可怕。我们一到公共场合，他就大发脾气!当我们开车时，他会试图掐住我父亲的脖子，或者撞到我父亲，这让他在开车时无法集中注意力。我们都不能带他出现在公共场合了!是的，他吃了药，但说实话，药没有任何作用!不管有没有吃药，他的行为都是一样的。当他去学校的时候，他打老师和孩子，这导致他的同学害怕他。 He broke TWO of his teachers phones. He ran out the school building and almost got hit by a car. Luckily a someone found him and brought him back safe to the school. He’s been to 4 different schools because of his behavior. Also when he gets upset he likes to take his anger out on me and my other two little sisters. He hit us with big items, scratches us, kicks us and constantly hits us with his hard toys. He makes threats that he will kill us and I’m starting to believe him. I’m tired of dealing with this! And this not even half of things he does it’s so much more but this isn’t normal. What should I do?? PLEASE HELP!

我儿子6岁了，我们为他的行为尝试了各种方法，心理医生，他有自己的治疗师，一个为整个家庭工作的工作人员。他总是生气、沮丧，不得到他想要的东西就不罢休。我们尝试了各种方法，从说“太糟糕了，对不起，也许下次吧……”这样简单的信息，然后就有了表达出来的部分。这对我来说太难了，因为我有三种不治之症，其中一种我知道我会死，只是没人知道什么时候。请帮助。

听起来好像你那些威胁你和攻击你的孩子都被敌人附身了，需要一个牧师或萨满来好好清洗，而不是去精神病院!

你把鲍勃送进医院后发生了什么。我们经历了地狱般的生活。

不是你的问题他的痛苦只是他想找个借口他以为你以为他病了但他只是很痛苦不想要帮助因为他觉得别人会对他评头评足你能做的就是问他想要什么而不是你想要什么。

我有一个失控的弟弟。这种情况已经持续多年了，但最近真的很糟糕。打破家里的每扇门，打兄弟姐妹，打我妈妈的车，打我妈妈，等等。一旦他生气了，他就什么都不在乎了。我看着我妈妈哭了好几个小时，她失去了自我，主要的问题是我哥哥。我不想让他把我妈妈从我们其他人(5个孩子)身边带走，压力太大了。我妈妈试过当地的一些餐馆，但都不太走运。我迫切需要帮助。

我也需要帮助。三年前，当我的侄女因吸毒过量去世时，我收留了我侄女的三个女孩，她们现在分别是16岁、8岁和6岁。两个小女孩还好，但16岁的她经历了太多。她被她母亲的每一个男朋友，包括她自己的父亲，殴打，挨饿，猥亵。现在我已经确定了收养她的事，这已经变成了一场噩梦。
去年我失去了我的工作(还有卡车和家)，因为她每天“昏倒”20多次，为了她的安全，我不得不把她放在轮椅上。3个月后，她的面包师采取了行动，我被告知这是行为上的，她再也没有发作过，也没有再使用轮椅。然后她开始切，贝克再次表演。告诉我儿子她喝防冻剂，贝克又演戏了!一天晚上，她把她的小妹妹推下楼梯，因为她哭个不停，她用锤子打她，打断了她的胳膊，但她告诉我是狗把她推下楼梯的。在医院里，小妹妹说出了事情的真相。警方联系了她，她以殴打罪被逮捕，并被处以缓刑。她在两年内被三所学校开除。上次上学时，她带了一把刀，声称有人在走廊捅了她的肚子，她在浴室捅了自己。现在她的情况是癫痫发作。 She has had 7 in the past 3 weeks. Always at school or on the bus, never at home. Nothing medically can be found wrong with her. Baker acted twice in last 3 weeks. I am at the point that I cannot have her home with the 2 younger sisters for their safety.
她有一个医生，每月一次的精神科医生，每周两次的治疗师，有针对性的病例经理，还有学校的辅导员，他们更愿意帮助她，每个人都说同样的事情，她需要尽快安置在一个机构。但是直到十月底才有空缺。有什么建议吗?我已经释怀了，害怕她会伤害孩子们。

你好，我们的情况很严重。我们的女儿现在15岁了，5年多来，我们一直在应对虚假的现实、威胁、多重人格等等。家里还有四个孩子。她甚至还从嘴里的唇疱疹中吸出血来，让它看起来像她在吐血。我的意思是一把把的血，足够医生认为从那些伤口中流出这么多血是不可能的。他们看见了，就把疮都去掉了。我在两家医院之间辗转了一个多月才发现她是装的。她现在在医院，但我们不能带她回家!在她离开之前，她绘绘绘色地描述了她把妹妹掐得太紧，以至于她能感觉到呼吸离开了她的身体。她想拿着我的凤头鹦鹉的头往笼子上撞，让它的头骨摔碎。 That voices are telling her to hurt and kill us. My husband has cancer and is on the verge of a heart attack, literally. He is on 2 blood pressure meds and a heart attack med. And I had a nervous breakdown when I found out that I had to be involved in family sessions with her every weekend at the 2-month facility. Our first session she shared with me that she wants us to respect that she wants to worship spiritism, cast spells, and spirit healing with the third eye. We are Christians. Not only are her threats of harm to our family hazardous but this took it over the top. I can't take care of my other kids like this. We are on a fixed income because of my husband's disability and cannot afford these fancy residential facilities. And at this point, I need her to get treatment on her own for a little while so I can focus on getting the rest of my family back to normal and getting all of their emotions worked out. I don't know what to do or where we can send her. I am willing to send her out of state if needed at this point. I have been searching for weeks online and I am lost. If anyone has any suggestions or can help in any way, please let me know. I am absolutely NO good to my family in the state of mind I am in now.

我丈夫和我都束手无策了，我有一个11岁快12岁的继女，她和我在这里读到的其他孩子很像。一点背景知识，我们花了5年时间才获得监护权，因为弗吉尼亚州的法院似乎不想剥夺母亲的监护权，无论她对孩子施加了多少虐待和忽视。我的继女饱受饥饿、殴打、医疗疏忽，甚至差点被她母亲亲手淹死。我们已经拥有了将近3年的监护权，但现在正在处理她母亲虐待的后果(我的继女仍然想和她一起生活)。我的继女是爆炸性的，总是生气，大喊大叫，破坏个人财产，她踢，咬，打，拳，扔东西或踢物体。现在我的腿上有4处瘀伤，都是她踢我、打我或向我扔东西造成的。她有切割的历史，听到声音告诉她杀了我，敲开我的头骨，看着我躺在自己的血泊中流血，直到我死去。这一切开始的一年半里我们把她送进了两家行为健康医院四次。她的妈妈每周六都有一个小时的监督探视，当天晚上甚至接下来的两天她都无法控制。她服用的药物比我记得的要多，她最初被诊断为情绪调节紊乱，ODD, ADD，她属于自闭症谱系，她被诊断出有额外的染色体，医生以前从未见过，除了5-6年的智力落后之外，她不能告诉我们会发生什么。 She was kicked out of school for 3 weeks as she threaten to stab herself with a pencil as she didn't want to take the school benchmark test. She now goes to school half day because the school can't handle her, a tutor comes to our home for 2 and a half hours a week. We spent 25 hours in our local ER here this last weekend to only be discharged because they couldn't find a bed anywhere within a 2 hour drive from us in any direction.. I am tired of being her punching bag. I have become depressed and have now had to go on medication. I already suffer from PTSD as my father was abusive in every way possible. I don't know how much more I can take.

我需要帮助，我有个7岁的孩子患有多动症还有行为问题他在威胁我，他在打人他想把自己从公交车窗户扔出去每天都变得越来越糟就像你说的精神病学对治疗没有帮助不是精神病学我需要帮助在他变得更糟之前你能打电话239 785-4726联系我吗

我14岁了，我弟弟一天比一天糟。一开始只是发脾气和大喊大叫，但现在是扔家具，打墙和踢墙，有时还会打别人。他只有11岁，被诊断患有多动症。我妈妈已经处理他的行为问题5年了，而且情况只会越来越糟。他说他有时想自杀或者只是说他恨所有人。它正在影响我们家里的每个人。我妈妈不该受到这样的待遇，她也无法让自己做任何事。当他生气时，都是为了一些小事，然后就大发脾气。它可以持续几分钟到几小时甚至几天。最后他总是道歉，但我不认为他会道歉，因为他会转身做他刚刚道歉过的事情。 I just don’t want him to hurt us or worse himself.

我fewl无望的等待我的儿子appt博士与强迫症诊断他他愤怒问题和尖叫声支安打,行为失控的他只有5但一直以来显示强迫症的症状他一年半在学校有困难他打架我每天早上我几乎要把他拖下车让他去有时我不知道该做什么但哭很难处理这个他根本不听我说他们已经想他举行回来后，他说他讨厌他的老师，我觉得别无选择

你好,所有…我有两个9岁的双胞胎女儿被诊断为ASD/ADHD和躁郁症……他们的学校已经意识到他们的这些障碍，但最近他们的缺课已经累积到一个程度，学校需要他们的精神科医生的医生借口，说明他们的疾病有时很难上学，当一个人生病时，另一个人不能单独上学。他们有医生的借口，现在要他们的医疗记录传真给学校辅导员…这是违法的吗?信息可以用来把他们赶出学校吗?他们是表现完美的学生，在家里没有对自己或他人造成伤害，当药物需要调整时，狂躁主要是大声的亢奋行为，没有什么危险，他们在学校从来没有表现出任何这种行为，我认为学校几乎不相信他们的诊断。然而，学校现在似乎很紧张?请帮忙有什么建议吗?

你怎么知道你8岁的儿子什么时候需要住院治疗，他有焦虑，强迫症，抑郁症，执行功能障碍，可能还有基于语言的学习障碍的多动症，他的愤怒和愤怒越来越严重，给我们整个家庭带来了损失。我左右为难。

我知道这篇文章是几年前发表的，但找到其他人做同样的工作是有帮助的。我五岁的儿子刚进了急性精神病院。那是我一生中最糟糕的一天。他一直在说要杀死动物和其他人，我别无选择。我们认为他爸爸对他说的话负有大部分责任因为他过去说过的话。我只知道我觉得自己是个糟糕的母亲我本应该多花点心思，多做点事。

嗨，我14岁，但我的弟弟是Vinelent，甜菜是妈妈和妹妹，如果他没有得到他的方式，他尖叫，甜菜对我和我的妈妈和妹妹，他7岁，但他的Vinelent

我和我12岁的儿子也有问题。他在学校调皮捣蛋，我每天都接到老师或管理人员的电话或邮件。他今年已经被停学无数次了。心理健康根本帮不了我们，他们说他们没有资源来帮助我们。我们每个月去看医生15分钟他们想让我诊断我儿子。在这些会议上，我经常不敢说任何话，因为我不想让他们曲解我说的话。在过去的六个月里无数次改变了他的诊断和药物。我有一个大女儿和一个小女儿，我非常害怕他在最小的女儿身边，因为他可能会对她非常粗暴。我已经山穷水尽了。我甚至联系了儿科医生，她的建议是带他去儿童医院。 They don’t take my insurance and won’t let me pay in cash, they said it would void his regular health insurance. He needs to have some Nero Physh testing done but there is a 9 month wait. At times he is Suicidal and self harming. Anyone have any ideas?

你好。我有个7岁的孩子5月份因为精神病住院了。把他丢在那里是一件痛苦的事，所以我明白有一个患有精神疾病的孩子有多困难。但与我在这里读到的大多数帖子不同的是，我儿子没有愤怒、愤怒或反抗的问题。我儿子是偏执型精神分裂症患者。他在学校(一年级)有幻觉，吓坏了学校的工作人员。他还患有自闭症，患有多动症和广泛性焦虑症，所以当他出现幻觉时，他会吸引别人的注意力，让他更容易成为恶霸和坏孩子的目标。他感到他的“灵魂”在射他，他看到血从他的胸口流出。他倒在地板上，因为他觉得自己好像被电击了(他的特殊兴趣之一是成为一名警察)。他不会一个人去任何地方，即使是在我们自己的家里。 Never...He believes he is being watched, that Hitler is going to kill him in his sleep, and that even the kids at school who are nice to him are out to get him and laugh at him (not true). Yesterday, he heard voices whispering, "I'm going to kill you!" He hears command voices telling him to hurt himself or kill me. School is very difficult for him and right now he only attends half days and has a full time aid. He cries all the time, often for no apparent reason. I feel that this is just the beginning of a very tough road. I live in a place far from friends and family. Every so often, I will meet someone with a child my son's age and we will agree to get them together to play. But shortly after, they disappear and once again, I am alone. The really sad thing is that even in the midst of his disorder, my son wants friends so badly it has become an obsession for him but as of now, he doesn't have any friends. We have gone almost the entire school year without a single birthday party invitation. When he had his party, we handed out 16 party invitations and only one child came. Her mom was the room mom and I guess she didn't get the memo..
我对我儿子的希望是他能有一个自信的地方。我希望他能有一个真正的朋友，做一个快乐的小男孩。我不想让他一直害怕。我希望有一天他能够成功地驾驭他的世界。他是我唯一的孩子，我只想看到他成长为一个快乐、有成就的成年人。现在，想这么远是令人沮丧的。我担心在我和他父亲去世后，谁会在他身边照顾他(和爱他)。他将孤身一人，任由一种可怕的耻辱性疾病摆布。即使是他的医生也不能让我对他成功的未来抱有希望。

我有一个15岁的男孩，他离家出走，吸毒，触犯法律，被学校停学和开除(他现在上第四所高中)。他还在儿童援助机构照顾，因为他一直离家出走，我不能再忍受了，我还有其他比他小的孩子要照顾，所以我把他转到儿童援助机构照顾几个月。在他被移交给儿童救助组织之前，我不得不报警，因为他已经失控了(被可卡因和其他毒品迷住了)，对他自己、对我和他的兄弟姐妹都有危险。警察把他带到急救室，在那里对他进行了毒品测试和简单的评估。几小时后他就被释放了，后来我发现在他的体内发现了可卡因。我努力获得关于他住院的信息，因为他们说他入院时我没有和他在一起，他们必须遵守病人保密规则，我获得信息的唯一方法是得到他的同意。后来我收到了一份他的唱片，因为他同意我可以看。总之，我挣扎了几个月，试图让他进行适当的评估，但因为他拒绝任何类型的评估，所以无法进行评估。在某些情况下，他要么书面同意，要么口头同意。他在9个月内被控约7项罪名(第一项指控始于2016年11月)。 One day when he took off again, he picked up another charge where I had to bail him out the next day (so he spent the night in jail). I went to court and pleaded for them to place a condition on his bail that he get an assessment. When I got the assessment done, I got the results and it said he had "A LEARNING PROBLEM. HIS SYMPTOMS ARE CONSISTENT WITH A LEARNING DISORDER AND SUBSTANCE ABUSE; HOWEVER, THERE IS A STRONG POSSIBILITY OF UNDERLYING ADHD AND CONDUCT DISORDER". Does this mean that this is his diagnosis, that he has ADHD and CONDUCT DISORDER? The psychiatrist offered him an adolescent psychiatric program for further assessment, but he refused to participate in the program. My question is, was that the diagnosis (ADHD AND CONDUCT DISORDER) and was the doctor just sending my son for treatment for these mental illnesses? I thought the psychiatrist was unsure of the illness, therefore he wanted to get a second opinion. However, my family doctor informed me that that was the diagnosis and my son did in fact have ADHD AND CONDUCT DISORDER. Please share your thoughts. I really need some advice on what to do in order get my son treated. As well, recently he has been defecating on the school washroom floors about almost everyday for over a month and he denied it adamantly. He has also urinated in the past on the school washroom floor and in someone's home in the vents. He has also stolen from me and others and denies it. Sometimes he seems fine and other times he is irritable, blaming, wants to give up (depressed about everything), selfish, dependent on me, disorganized, messy, throws tantrums, daydreaming and doesn't seem remorseful or doesn't take responsibility for his actions... Many times I have to do things as little as making sure he has his key for home. Most times he leaves the door open when he leaves, even though he has his keys and he loses his items a lot.
我该怎么办?今年是压力最大的一年。请帮助!

我儿子8岁了，被诊断患有ODD。他很生气，会把书扔在地上，当我试图通过电话和他说话时，他不说话。他在用因图伏，但似乎不管用因为他一直在发脾气。我是一个单身母亲，我已经快黔驴技穷了。因为他的行为，书写障碍和阅读障碍，他在学校接受IEP治疗。我已经把他从一个护理机构转移到一个更小的护理机构，那里也提供空手道指导。他在学校内外都有辅导员和精神科医生。我不得不带他去急诊室，因为他不愿意降级，让他们的心理医生看看我一直在处理什么。我想下一个选择是换一种药，但如果不管用，有没有针对他这个年龄的孩子的住院行为中心?

我们终于把她送进了行为诊所。第一次拜访只是历史，第二次他们做了一些测试，但我不知道他们做了什么，因为我不被允许和她在一起，我觉得这是一件好事。下周才会有消息，但我今天早上不得不给他们打了个电话，因为她的消极行为增加了。她把我们的一只雪貂扔到地板上，还在打人，昨天学前班的时候，她追着一个同学想剪她的头发，当老师解释说这样不安全时，她在她的衬衫上剪了一个大洞。我越来越担心她接下来会做什么。她对自己所做的事毫无悔意。她变得越来越苛刻，如果她不能立即得到她想要的东西，她就会愤怒地爆发。