我正在处理一个自杀的43岁的男邻居，他死前三天我和他谈过。似乎大多数与我交谈的人都无法理解我所感受到的痛苦，并建议我试着忘记/不去感受这种可怕的痛苦。虽然我不是他的家庭成员，但自从他开始和我互动，花时间和我聊天和发短信以来，我的损失是巨大的。作为一个单身女人，我要照顾她98岁的妈妈，没有其他邻居对我的困境感兴趣。他非常聪明，但不明白他为什么要这么做。

处理朋友自杀的事

我们生活在这样一个快节奏的时代去吧，去吧，现在就去吧，开车穿过这个世界，大多数人不想谈论大萧条，更不用说试图理解和评判你为razy，一个人怎么去做，一般不知道我的工作，尽管

没有人可以倾诉你的抑郁

Hellooo。我叫克里斯，15岁，快16岁了。自从我三个月前读到一本关于一个男孩的书后，我就对DID非常着迷。我意识到我和主角伊恩有很多相似之处。在书中，他在学校，在家里，和他的朋友在外面都是不同的。都是他的不同版本。他还有一个主要的变型，可以接管，当他接管时，伊恩失去了意识。我也有类似的事情，只是我不认为自己被完全接管过。问题是，我的脑海里有一个声音，但我很困惑，那只是我的声音，还是一种改变。我叫她亚历克西斯。 She sounds the same as me, which is why its confusing, but her voice is one i cant control. Sometimes i feel like i can manipulate her into saying something specific, but most of the time it doesnt work that way. Shes often extremely rude and judgemental of other people, and criticizes them, when i myself like the person. She criticizes me as well, but sometimes really helps me feel better about myself in ways. Shes the main voice in my head. I actually gave her the name Alexis when my little sister and i were playing a game. Anyways, shes never, that i know of, taken over me. Moving on, i sometimes randomly do a little kid voice, mostly around my girlfriend. Ive only heard the little kid voice in my head maybe once, but i do it in person out of nowhere. Today, i was on call with my gf, and i spaced out and then started laughing uncontrollably, and did the little kid voice. I was aware of everything happening, and i was confused if i was in control or not. I kept acting silly and wanting to say "kris" instead of "i". Id eaten a lot of chocolate and drank soda and my gf said im sugar high and i kept saying "no no just silly". At some point she said "its funny how this only happens when youre out of school" and i wanted to say "kris very careful at school" instead of "im careful at school". So im not 100% sure if its another alter, because im conscious while all this happens. When i do the little kid voice, i feel very childish, silly, joyful, loving, and playful. I eventually spaced out again and i was back, but still extremely confused if i was controlling it all. As far as trauma goes, i know that usually, you have to have had a very traumatic experience to develop DID. Ive had many traumatic experiences, but im not sure if theyre traumatic enough to cause DID. Last year, i was sexually assaulted by a boy i thought i could trust. That still effects me and im trying to get therapy. In middle school, i was hated by a lot of people just for being myself. I often had to help people almost everyday, talking them out of killing themselves. Ive self harmed before too. And i have many issues with my biological and step father. Ive almost ran away about 5 times, and ive always had a packed bag just in case. Theres a lot more ive been through as well. I kinda feel like im going insane, and i feel like maybe im making all the alters up in my head. Not sure if theyre real or not. Its all so confusing and sometimes overwhelming. Ive mentioned Alexis to my gf a few times before, and pointed to my head when i said "the child is being very stubborn", but i think she thinks im talking about an actual person, and not the voice in my head. Im kinda scared to tell her, scared she'll leave me thinking im insane, or hate me and think im lying and making it all up. I dont know what to do with myself anymore.

分离性身份识别障碍中的幻听

嗨Lizanne,

这需要练习，这点很好。我个人知道，这是我必须不断努力的事情。你很容易就会被那些增加你焦虑的想法所带走。我完全同意，当你在思考过程中做出这些调整时，练习自我同情是很重要的。

保持安全,
Rizza

挑战焦虑的想法

Lizanne,

谢谢你！我花了很长时间才意识到这一点，所以我很高兴能与大家分享。打破长期养成的习惯需要付出很多努力。

朱莉安娜

打破过度道歉的习惯