双相情感障碍和重影:这是一个大问题

我知道这篇文章有点老,但我刚发现。我男朋友3年(断断续续)ghost我12天,直到我收到他的信。去年春天,他和我分手了(2021)由于困惑得到了他想要的东西。一些治疗后3个月后(他反对)他伸出手说他想再试一次,工作结束了自己的生命。我们做夫妻咨询工作沟通风格的差异,但停止和他的个人治疗停止他从未在药物或12月正式诊断但两周前他坏了说他讨厌住在科罗拉多州,他需要回到更接近他的孩子,他不确定自己想要什么了。他说他需要过程,然后2周了。我没有接触,我不想把他更远,但与他的朋友检查,以确保他是好的。长话短说,他送我一个神秘的电子邮件与思想这个周末得到处都是,然后我们见面亲自说话。他说他没有能力去给(我)的关系和爱我,但是很抱歉。他说他将会得到帮助。 I'm so broken and sad because I want to be there to help him, seeing my best friend struggle is so hard. :( I know I have to let him heal and move on with my life--it's just really hard after having gone through a divorce and then finally found someone I wanted to spend my life with.

我可以原谅你生病,但是我不能原谅你忽略它和破坏的生活让自己更容易一些。你没有一点也不公平,你一直残忍的方式永远不会明白,不想。我完成了伤害,你必须生活在现在,我受够了1一生,轮到我是免费的。

意识和沟通走很长的路!你做的很好,继续。

我和ex-fiance一起7。年。我们从一开始就生活在一起,差不多,我生活在共同的朋友,每个人都挂了,我试图逃离疯狂,虐待家庭搬出后,搬进了他。他是我的磐石,他完全在财务上支持我,等等。他总是消失了很多和ghost每个人,包括家人。我会假装离开他,搬我的东西,然后我无法与他取得联系退。当我回去,大约一个星期才使他平静下来,他很激动,一团糟。一旦他说:“你为什么不早来?”Three years ago, when we were between apartments, my worst nightmare happened. I was at my parents as we were in a fight and he completely disappeared. During the three years, he did go to therapy once and then ghosted her too. He moved to another state also. I feel so helpless. I've never been more sad about anything or felt more like nobody understands. My therapist says nobody CAN tell me if he's coming back or not as no one else was there. I feel so alone and scared. That feels kind of nice to get it out though I have major trauma response from this (and from before this) and I ask that people be sensitive.

我看到我的男朋友已经有5年了。我为他工作。我注意到一些奇怪的事情,他让我在远处,他相信我花了很长时间。我们的爱随着时间的流逝。他第一次被我当我辞职,因为所有的恃强凌弱的人在工作,之后他们发现我是看到他。这是36天。他十年前肾移植和他告诉我他很急躁。他现在有另一个,这对每个人来说都极其紧张。他是18日平板电脑。他一直说那么快、那么多,他非常情绪化,出去一个购买3企业(移植后4周)他不睡在轻度躁狂。 This is the first time I realize what is going on with him. He always said he cannot have a relationship- I thought he kept me at arms length because of his kidney problems, but I think he is Bpd. Just guessing. I have been under tremendous stress, lost my nephew last year over a long awful suffering, which destroyed my family, 2 job losses, my dog, Bella is dying & I know i have to take her. I am stressing financially. He has blocked me, now during his manic phase. Told me a female colleague is driving him around the country. And said "I should bugger off" When I phone he screams he will block me, we can only whatsapp. I am so down, I don't know how to pick myself up. He' s been under such stress, for years, worrying about surviving. So i understand & these pills he has to take, to stop his kidney from rejecting- i wish i knew long ago that he might be bipolar, I would have been better prepared. I supported him, went through bullying, him not telling his children and ex about me. His ex donated the kidney. I thought we were about to have a future, now, after the long struggle. Instead everything is falling & I have no one to speak to - don't feel like it even helps. I have to find work - just all too much. I want him to be ok and find happiness, I wish I could just speak to him. I also freaked out, thinking he is messing around with this other woman, that made him angry, that is why he blocked me. I read through these comments and I see I am not alone, maybe they just cannot deal with emotions.

我有什么我想接近,最好的朋友。她处理双相,我与抑郁症有斗争。我们是朋友了二十年。今年1月,她说她想要从我空间,因为她沉浸在生活和许多责任。我不知道如果这是真正的原因。以来已经两个半月我们交谈。我想尊重她需要空间,但她绝对不会以任何方式与我沟通。我们生活在两个不同的国家,但投入的努力和爱的关系保持下去。她有一个女儿四岁,我感觉非常接近她,就像她是一个grandaughter。我朋友不方便以任何方式保持联系有她的女儿。 It feels very selfish from my end. I feel like all she cares about is her own needs and that she wont be there for me if I go through a hard time. She has not consideration for how her actions are affecting me. I have no idea if she has completely walked away from me as a friend or not. It seems very insensitive to me, to cut me out of her life.

我的搭档已经诊断为双相情感三次,拒绝接受诊断。我一直在这里为他通过每一集,但必须创建一些距离,自己搬到安全的地方。然而,我告诉他,我想让我们的关系为他工作,我在这里。他经常阻止我,不接受我的电话或短信几天或几周。它是如此伤害!我开始觉得很没有安全感和沮丧。我担心他已经等。我不知道还能做些什么来支持他,因为这可以发生在我们之间的一切都好。

我想我被一个男人最好的朋友ghost争吵之后,我觉得他可能是双相。
我们疯狂的在过去6个月,共享深连接,把一切都告诉彼此。我们几乎形影不离,每个人都会说我们是一对佳偶,等等。我为他最终下降,遗憾的是他没有同样的感觉,这是当它走下坡。最初,受拒绝,我不想和他做朋友了但他持久保持朋友和我,不想让我走。我们最终回到说话但它就再也不一样了——我们不断争论,起初我以为我是罪魁祸首。我无意中对他做的每一件可疑的发表评论,这是很多,他会得到我由于他防御性质。
我们最终谈到它,整理出来,我决定不让我的情绪得到最好的我,我对他不再是粗鲁的。说,过去一周,我会说因为我们开始认为他越来越亢奋,积极在他说话的方式,很容易生气。尽管我不再激怒他,说事情可能被视为粗鲁,他会不断地嘲笑我说,告诉我闭嘴当我说话。为了和平我放手,不报复,只是忍受整个星期,但这是在伤害我。旁边,他讨厌我,我,有时我宁愿远离他。
突然,几天前他的心情开关和他安静,说这是因为他累了。他也避免跟我说话,但在别人发言时,这真的伤害了我的感情,因为我很喜欢他,我不禁想知道我做了什么使他难过。当我问他的好,他说他有情绪波动,没有什么可以帮助他,甚至不治疗,他每周参加。他说,他们只是正常,显然在他的情况下他们没有。
昨天,现在我感觉非常伤害他如何对待我整个星期,我没有看到在跟他说话,因为我做了几次,也没有改变。我几的意思是评价一群聊天,真的每个人都对他无礼,他决定离开这个群聊和私人信息我说,他想跟我很酷,但我把它太远了,而且我应该停止消息他。记住至少3人也被他粗鲁的群组聊天,开玩笑比粗鲁但我是唯一一个他很生气。我试着解释我身边的事情但无济于事,他完全忽略了我说什么,毕竟他是为我做的这就是我如何行动,所有我做的是伤害他,他现在想要把自己放在第一位,我应该闭嘴,阻止垃圾邮件他消息。他还叫我进步的敌人,当他的幸福和做的很好我来了让他伤心。
然后今天,我反省,意识到发生了什么事我粗鲁,我迫切想要解决问题,尽管他也伤害了我的感情很多所以我打电话给他,他回答了,但什么也没说,所以我又挂了电话,叫他好几次,他拒绝了。他还无视我寄给他的所有消息。我决定把我的伤害放在一边解决问题但是他根本不会回应,我开始怀疑他有双相,他就是我鬼影。
他有情绪波动频繁,我注意到,被超或低。我认为,当我们争吵不断,轻度躁狂发作他和昨天的事件让他有抑郁症,都怪我。他没有诊断所以我不能肯定,但他有家族病史的抑郁和双相所以他是否容易出现疾病,他显示的很多很难想象其他迹象。
我知道我应该运行,老实说我一直有机会,但我爱他太多让他走。可悲的是,我不知道他是否会再跟我说话。我不认为我所做的对我是足够的重影,我想知道他是双相解释道。

我的男朋友最近停止跟我说话并试图结束这段关系。我们已经在一起7个月了。他阻止我,不回应我。我爱他,知道他爱我,这是极其困难和伤害200%已经几天,他说他没有能量的关系。他还说,他有很多的生活,没有时间。我只是想让他跟我说话,让事情变得更好。

很高兴我遇到了这篇文章,所以对不起,所有的人在评论中。我很爱上了别人我知道过去,在网上,在封锁,我们非常接近(从未觉得如此接近任何人)4 - 5个月。我不确定我们是兼容的整体,尽管我们的激情和亲密。我认为这伤害了他,即使这不是个人,事情似乎与我们良好的大部分时间。最后,一个小论点之后,他挂断了我的电话,bread-crumbed几周然后发给我一个可怕的,有害的电子邮件。他告诉我他生病与自闭症倦怠(他的双相)所以我试图保持联系和支持。但他打断了我的话语,最糟糕的莫过于他的电子邮件。我还没有一个适当的解释,在这事发生之前,他似乎完全好了。他总是与我。我认为他的母亲对他有负面影响,影响他打断了我的话语(据我所知)。 It's been almost 3 months since he last video called me and 2.5 months since he sent that email. The first two months since the email were extremely hard. Felt so devastated. Now am doing better but I still want a conversation with him. He told me he'd never speak to me again but idk how seriously I can take that since he was really ill when he said it. It doesn't seem healthy to just cut off with a cruel message and no explanation. I can only put it down to his bipolar disorder. I hope he's doing okay.

我妻子失踪四周前首次在我们五年的婚姻生活/七年的关系。我相信很多年前,她被诊断出患有双相。我完全不知道后悔的迹象或做更多鼓励精神评估(我们现在谈论然后但肯定把它落在忙碌的生活)。阅读这个博客和所有的反应我觉得更害怕。这么多的事情写在这里听起来像她。我想找她,但她没有跟任何人说话。

我没得到正式诊断为双相情感障碍只有一个“不明情绪障碍”但是我妈妈和我有一个家庭的历史。我有许多的症状和他们变得更糟的是我已经老了。我被告知我有情绪波动,甚至有人告诉我,他们认为我有边缘型人格障碍,但我挣扎了一段时间,我从好恨自己,想死还是断开/孤立。我以前在其他例如在学校我坐在图书馆和我的朋友和其他人在我的品位和整个时间主要是我刚刚失神了一下。当我的朋友会问我为什么会说“我思考的东西或者我想弄出去”我也处理强迫性说谎,我不知道如何停止。它像成为一件很自然的事情对我来说,我讨厌自己,但我一直重影几天我和我的朋友们会回答我的妈妈和我总是道歉,然后我继续做它,我感觉糟透了。我离开我的学校,我告诉我的朋友我不是鬼,这基本上我无意中做了什么。我只是太忙了,我不回应了几天我的一个朋友,但其被周,我不知道对他们说什么因为什么我说将使它更好。我有几天,我做好事,我感觉开心,有时精力充沛的能量。这几年发生了,我就随机觉得我有很多能量,然后其他时间我会犯错误或者做错了,我觉得我应该死。 I take a mood stabilizer but it doesnt help it just makes me feel empty sometimes and I dont want to lie to my friends about why i didnt respond. I miss them so much I just dont know what to say and I feel like its too late for me. I've also gone from trying to do anything I can to stay alive or not doing things so that I wouldnt die or just having anxiety around death and then other times I feel like I deserve to die because of things I've done. Ive been taking meds for years and I go to therapy once a week. I just lie to my therapist not completely but mostly I do so everyone thinks Im okay so I dont have to go to the hospital again I just dont know what to do and I sometimes feel like some people are better off without me

其实我是双性恋极性,当我觉得被拒绝我变得疯狂,我满MAIC模式我叫THOUSND倍我信徒的事情没有发生,真正使我最终SABOTOSING关系没有解释,他终于阻止了我

我可以用你的帮助。我儿子有双相情感和我重影。已经一年没有联系。我应该做什么。我爱他那么多。请帮助!

我约会过一个变性的男人一个月。一切都很好,但他知道我回到我的国家所以我告诉他,我只是想享受我们所拥有的。我记得我解决边界和解释多少交流对我很重要,我需要有人耐心因为我处理创伤。他似乎可以理解,告诉我多好和巨大的他在交流。
第一次我见到他的时候他总是精力充沛,
制定计划,直到我在这里的最后一天,他甚至想让我去见他的朋友,等等。
然后他开始变得越来越冷,累了,直到有一天他告诉我,他是双相,只是最近开始他的药物。
他告诉我,他很好,只是需要时间来调整。我bipolarism一无所知,也是我第一次约会一个变性人,但是我很高兴他觉得足够舒适的与我分享,告诉他,我很高兴他是照顾自己,无论如何,我是来支持。
我问很多次如果一切都好,我什么都不想深思,要确保有沟通,但他总是说一切都很好没有回问我感觉如何。
几次他想跟我见面,知道我的日程安排是多忙,当我找时间去见他的时候,他是在最后一分钟借口不出现。
他最后一次通过短信编造了一个借口我告诉他,我很抱歉,但它不工作了。
我希望他会尽量弥补这个缺点,尝试修复时间以来的情况我告诉他这是好的但要求他不做了,只是聊天。他ghost我后我的信息,避免对抗和任何形式的对话。他没有阻止我,因为几天之后我试图伸手回来解释自己和告诉他,即使我离开不久关心他,但这并不是正确的就从没有消失,尤其是当他知道交流对我来说是多么的重要。即使,告诉他我的感受,我希望看到或跟他说话他没有回答。
我甚至不明白即使关心在这一点上,我很愚蠢,因为我信任他,和我分享很多事情……我试着告诉自己他只是经历很多事情,但是我不能接受这个事实他无法沟通....

我想弄清楚是怎么回事,我约会的男人,直到上周,并想知道如果这是它。我们约会了几个月,一切都是很好的,我想。我们移动非常缓慢,但我知道他会来的困难从先前的婚姻关系,有两个孩子。我们有一个伟大的连接,他总是十分体贴周到。他整天给我每一天,我的工作很感兴趣,等。我看见他两周前的一个晚上,然后噗。他停止消息,停止响应。我问他发生了什么短信和他说忙。我知道这似乎并不正确,他坚持认为一切都很好。第二天,他给我一个文本说他不得不取消我们的计划的第二天晚上,他太忙了。虽然我回答说,我是非常伤害他将结束在文本,甚至不打电话,他说他很抱歉,但仍没有电话。 At some point my friend (not at my prompting) urged him to call me b/c she could tell how distressed I was by the lack of closure. He said something like ok, but did not. I can't make heads or tails of it. Did I do something? did he have something going on I didn't know about? I did notice he would get obsessive about various subjects, and he admitted it was a thing for him. He also mentioned taking prozac at one point. Could there be much more going on than I knew?

什么对我来说是最困难的是不知道。我们已经交往了5个月,他已经ghost我过去6天。几个月前他告诉我他有抑郁症和英国石油(BP)使用适应症。我注意到他将hyperfocus在政治问题上,肯定有一些偏执。但这是非常令人担忧。他有一个粗略的几个月里,火灾中失去了自己的位置,真的一直在苦苦挣扎。我们只见面一次一个月左右就将所有的垃圾,和他住几小时从我身边带走。我觉得很难知道如果这只是他需要空间,因为他有这么多废话。他一直处于困境,但是我们只是很热情,情感周末和他告诉我的事都是正确的。几天后,然后“噗”他强调工作和没有回短信。 This was just so out of character, that I thought he must have broken his phone , or gotten hurt . We literally text all the time , for hours . I couldn’t believe that the very same man who had shared so much with me and been so vulnerable with me would just walk away. Honestly I’m a bit heart broken and so lost and confused. Part of me thinks he just needs some time to sort things out, but the longer it gets without hearing from him , I just think he’s gone . So then of course , I doubt my ability to know someone . We have had such an connection on every level . I feel very taken advantage of . Because we literally talked all the time about the future .
我猜我只是想确定,我生气,给他一顿如何伤害我,这可能只会推开他。还是我只是给他空间和希望他回来,,直到他没有联系他。这尤其艰难,因为他是第一个人我已经约会过自4年前的23年的婚姻。讨论重大信任问题在这!

我感觉你的每一个人。我已经看到一个大约3个月了,wvery 5 - 6周就消失在我。这里也没有解释。他告诉我,他有双相2和我说我还想要和他一起给他。
我已经告诉他很多次我在这里的好与坏。当我们在一起,一切都好很好。他告诉我他有多喜欢我,他与我多少多少他赞赏我。
但后来他消失了3 - 4周没有发送我一个消息,回复我,甚至让我知道他的好。我告诉他,如果他需要时间,但也不错,每次这样我担心生病。我只是想知道他还活着,而不是死在沟里。
我真的很喜欢这个人,这就是为什么我把这。但让我最困扰的是感觉,如果我需要他对我不会有。如果我去了医院,真的不舒服或struggeling他也不在乎,因为他在一个黑暗的地方,忽视世界上其他wverything。
我真的不知道该做什么了。我目前在赛季2周4他重影我. .想我就等他回来然后和他谈谈

结婚30年。今年的丈夫被诊断。他有重影我,我们住在同一个房子里。10年。我只是照顾,认为只要孩子和孩子们都出了房子,我们会单独或生活像我们的室友。他在药物以来做得更好,但重影仍然会发生。我提醒他我还在这里你是否想要我。

我的男朋友是双相情感和自我用药。他一直把他买的东西在液态下舌头。这并不理想,但似乎确实帮助他和我在的地方如果它帮助我买下它了。整个夏天他开始陷入旧的负面行为,当他狂躁的意思和咄咄逼人。在我所做的一切都说,他批评我,叫我的名字。几周前,他开始将实验氯胺酮治疗的精神科医生。之前,他着迷于减肥和禁食。他减掉了20磅,快48到72小时一次一周一次。他不停地食物羞辱我,想让我在他的节食。然后他补充道克他命的,是不可容忍的,意味着所有的时间。 Last week I picked him up from an appointment and he picked a fight with me, said a bunch of hurtful things and broke up with me. I went to his house and gathered my things and left. We didn’t talk all week. He sent me a message that night reminding of an obligation I had in the morning. I didn’t respond and I didn’t make the obligation either. I ran into him a few times that week at work (yes we work at the same company so there’s that) the first time we shared an elevator and made pleasant small talk. After I felt ashamed for even being nice to him after how he treated me so the next few times I just ignored him altogether. He messaged me on fb that night and said he missed me and wished I’d come over for some jalapeño poppers he’d made. Then the next day we chatted and he seemed like he was having regret and was still even considering coming on my trip for my bday in October. I tried to reach out the next day but he ignored me. Then I had asked about a couple of things I forgot to grab from his house, I said I’d leave my car unlocked and he could just leave them in my car at work l. That way if he didn’t want to talk he didn’t have to. Days went by and nothing. No returner stuff and no response. I waited a few more days to give him space then I messaged him again. This time on fb messenger so I could at least see if he was reading my messages. I said if he needs more time let me know. If it’s done and he doesn’t want to talk again at least let me know and return my things but either way please don’t leave me hanging. I’ve done nothing to deserve that. Read the message but no response. Even fb says we are still “in a relationship” he hasn’t told his family whom I’m close to and I wanted to give him the opportunity to either figure it out and or tell them first. He has had a history or being in w relationship and then ghosting her. I don’t know what this is or what he wants. I feel like I’m going crazy and not sure what to do

我已经完全忽视了3个月。它真的帮助我读这篇文章,读大家的评论。经历离婚14年之后。痛苦的。谢谢大家。

我需要帮助。我不能区分我的男朋友被双极或只是一个混蛋。我们一直以来被3个月约会。前几周他惊人的,发短信我日夜。总是想见面,然后突然一个月后,他已我5天,然后显示备份没有解释。我原谅了他,然后我们继续再一个月后他鬼我。他会表现出很大的情绪波动。他吃一次24-36小时。他几乎每天做噩梦。我们没有问题或任何战斗。 Hes calling me baby one day and then a few hours later he just disappeared. Its been 10 days and ive heard nothing back from him. He posted once on his snapchat story and he knows i can see it but he didnt even care. Idk if im making excuses for him or this is really his disorder.

我已经在和别人同居浪漫关系,2双相情感障碍。我们在一起4年了,这是一个绝对的情感过山车。她是我遇到的第一个人患有双相情感障碍所以我无能的一段时间。我才开始意识到什么是她情绪稳定了几个月的关系,因为她是真的很擅长隐藏自己的情感。后来我开始注意她的躁狂充满活力和抑郁发作,但是我一直认为这是她的性格的一部分,由于她的过去与家人和过去的创伤与费用的关系。她告诉我,她与她的父母是破碎关系的原因她18岁时搬出去。我遇见她时,她20岁的时候,我当时21岁,我有严厉的父母,我想逃离了一机遇与她一起生活。我爱上了她的甜蜜,爱,善良和真诚的人格。我总是忽略了野蛮的一面她性急地口头谩骂,操纵,可恨的,充满了不必要的投诉。大约半年到我们的同居关系我意识到她情感人格是一种精神疾病,双相情感障碍。 Upon realizing this i was already emotionally invested and had told her that i would try to always be commited to understanding her bipolar disorder. Our whole relationship has been respectfully great. We had spent almost everyday together working multiple jobs for the past 4 years to make ends meet paying the bills and rent. We would always get stoned and go on dinner dates. She would go out of her way to do things for me as she was full of surprises on our monthsaries. She would always assure our relationship and would tell me I was the one she loved the most. She was quite responsible always cooking,cleaning, doing laundry, etc. I've seen her struggle with her depressive epsiodes and i've always comforted her with hugs and kisses. Like any other relationships we've had really bad arguments, but we both maturely always manage to come to an agreement and accept our faults. 4 years into the relationship i really believed that she was a person that i could have a future with and eventually get married. Then came a turning point to our relationship. We both started working at a marijuana grow op and she had started smoking excessively and drank energy drinks every single day for a month straight. I believe the high amount of caffeine worsened her anxiety and ability to cope through her mood swings. She had also met a new co-worker that i have noticed they have gotten uncomfortably close and his intentions were clear that he likes her. I've confronted her about and she claims that they are nothing more than friends. I've even caught her texting him it was nothing sexual but she tried to hide his phone number by saving it under her girlfriend's name. Her excuse was so i dont get butt hurt about it. After work she would be emotionally exhausted and she slowly started to drift away from me. I also had a gut feeling that she caught feelings for this other coworker of ours. We both ended up getting laid off from the job and thats when she was a complete emotiotional wreck. Out of nowhere, out of the god damn blue she was saying she needed space to be alone and that she was feeling alot of pain and hurt inside and she could no longer give me love and that its not my fault. She brought up how she wanted to move back with her abusive parents and that we give eachother space for a month for her to better herself, which made no sense at all. I have been the one supporting her and basically being her therapist for 4 years. Anyways she proposed that we give eachother space for a month and not talk to eachother at all and after she gets to decide if she was better enough to keep our relationship going. I had a gut feeling that she wanted to GHOST me after that one month. So i confronted her about this "space" she wanted and what her intentions were and she literally told me that our relationship is coming to an end. Im 25 years old now , scratching my head asking myself what did i get myself into.