双相情感障碍和重影:这是一个大问题

人们在欣赏一集善良和/或令人鼓舞的消息,而在一集/拉/被关闭?即使他们可能没有回应?

你好所有的,
它永远不会结束。它将发生一遍又一遍。
不要把任何经济上他们的名字,让尽快运行
它从不停止

我和我的搭档一起为8个月一切都好花每天晚上我们一起买了礼物好我们一起很好我最好的伙伴,他说。我们有一些参数如我们都做他近来废话很多失去了房子,猫去他爸爸的,是努力工作然后他撞他的车压力然后他现在拍下来悲伤抑郁崩溃。总冲击他像变了一个人。我们不生活在一起,但因为他的疾病现在我们再也见不到彼此或听到他。冲击一切伟大的就像他责备我了一切他认为他的配偶家庭不是我。上个月是很难的我哭了不睡他驱逐出境。我甚至想着你送卡每周一周一次上升下降他邻舍的礼包给从未得到了谢谢。然后惊喜周前我们见面可以看出他不是我新下伤心的男人。但他买了新卡车的头发做的新衣服。然后说冲击也许我们成为朋友我说不,我不想那样。 I cried so much when I got home. Was that low surprised I thought this it im sick of this. I've stood by you now this. I was at one point thought my life ended told him in a text im done I dint get a reply. Not even next day. For all he new I could be dead on floor. He replied back im ill I don't need all this crap I said all about you. WHAT has happened to this guy. what do I do driving me mad week now no contact ???? I think he got Bioplar

我已经在一年和一个双相的关系。在此期间我看到并支持一些最严重的高点和低点,他含蓄地信任我。这一次不过是一集已经酝酿,他已决定采取个人犯罪评论我自己了,和一些如何完全扭曲的这是一个对他的批评。我花了几个小时试图安抚,坚决支持,但它是不够的。结果非常令人讨厌的名字叫采取阻止我无处不在。很令人担忧的行为不知道如果他好等但我也相信我们都需要休息。有点希望在某种程度上,他将开启我们还可以讨论,但也为最坏情况做准备。很难过给我们如何连接惊人和彼此相爱很深但不禁觉得也许这是最好的。显然我不是他所需要的或我们不会是今天

这是有助于发现别人在同一条船上。我已经在很长一段距离关系和关闭了17年。我开始跟这个家伙在我13岁的时候。他有一个损坏的童年,和他的妈妈死于癌症我们15时,紧随其后的是他的父亲自杀后不久,爸爸从他的步骤和滥用。他非常坏了。我们谈了几个小时每天晚上和靠彼此通过我们的青少年。23岁,我父亲被确诊为癌症晚期,当我告诉我的家伙,他无法处理的痛苦消失了5年。我无法跟踪他。最终我从英国移居加拿大,有一天,当他发现他的老社交媒体账户已经激活。我们回来联系,就像什么事也没有发生过。 He told me he was diagnosed with bipolar shortly after my dad passed away in 2014 and was in a bad way, but he had kept an eye on my progress and thought I hated him for leaving me, so he thought I’d be better off. We fell back in love and he made many attempts to visit me in Canada although his anxiety and mentality stopped him every time. After a year, I decided to fly back to England to bring him back with me. We both quit our jobs and decided to start a fresh together in Canada even though this was during the pandemic.
自从回到英国,我们还没有在一起。他有很多抑郁发作,现在ghost我约6倍在过去6个月,有时由于covid,或他的祖父的死。它伤害了我每次他因为我总是焦虑他不会回来。他现在走了10天。不是时间最长,但它是一个挣扎在这里没有收入,通过这些艰难时期需要回家。他是我一生的挚爱,当事情是好的,我们非常强大的和爱。但它确实对自己的心理健康造成损害。我试图理解,我从来没有给他的感觉,我将考虑放弃他。我们比任何人都更好地互相了解,这对我很重要,他知道他应该得到爱情和幸福就像其他人一样。但我的心与所有这些障碍。 There is someone out there who will prioritise you. You just need to let them help you.

我的故事是相似的重影,他的不安。他开车回家在午夜后一个想象中的轻微/两大杯葡萄酒后完全不合逻辑。不会接电话一整夜,第二天。我们一起买了回来。我有许多戏剧、痛苦和不成熟的例子。我们只约会了4个月,但他非常非常爱和甜蜜的心情。我从未被允许有自己的情绪/他不能处理它和他们比他的温和。他侮辱我如此糟糕的那天晚上我们爬上床。我整夜流泪,一波又一波的压力。我恳求他道歉,他坚称他的意思,“这并不是说坏”。 The entire 4 months have been either extremely loving or extremely irritable. That day I made him leave his key and take his things out of my house. All he had to do was acknowledge my pain. I just don’t understand it but it’s on par with the whole way the relationship has been. This happened yesterday and although I feel relief I still love him and want to make sure he’s ok. He is ignoring my texts and phone calls completely. I’m sure by now I’m “against him” like “everybody else”. I know in my heart I did the right thing because I’m recovering from a car accident and I also have my own mental health to worry about. I know my life with him would be very hard. It’s all so painful. I hope he sticks with his new therapist and that we can work it out one day. If anyone would like to answer this post I would really appreciate it. He’s such a tortured soul who literally does not know how to have a respectful, adult conversation geared towards resolution. Instead he just escalates. I feel my own mental health regressing.

感谢每一个人分享你的故事。我有几个人在我的生命中双相脱节。当服用药物后他们可以看起来功能正常。我有一个朋友,可以追溯到60年。我们已经关闭。大约5年前,我注意到她的古怪行为。我们并不是生活在同一个城市这变得明显时,她访问了美国。过滤,没有界限的行为非常令人震惊。我不会进入细节,但5天后,和口语和她的家人来到地表。她说她没有带足够的药物。 Whether or not that was true she had people feeling like babysitters before she went home. She would have periods of normalcy. For a time afterwards she lived with her daughter and that not working well for the household she went to a half way house of a sort where meds would be sorted. Then she finally got her own place. Our friendship has been through many phases. I decided to move nearby because I had not recognized patterns to her behavior changing and getting worse over time. We had many conversations where she seemed herself, doing the right thing to get help. Now that I am here, after and for many months she has cut me out of her life. I was hurt at first even angry. I am approaching indifferent as I have decided to cut ties with her. It is too much of a roller coaster. Also my husband and I will be moving back to where we came from. I read somewhere a statement that addresses this issue very well. Having bipolar doesn’t give you a free pass to treat friends with no respect. So we move on. She is on meds, found a new therapist and has a life even in the pandemic. The difference is I am not in it, but it is my choice not hers.

哇!所有的这是非常深刻的,至少可以说非常明确。雷竞技是骗人的最近开始约会的童年爱我认识近30年来从未知道BP,直到几个月前。重影在一起生活现在已经持续了3周,考虑到非常有意的日常通信一整天来一个很突然的停止在很多层面上提出了红旗。读完这些文章/经验为了教育自己,我不确定这是我想要我的生活在一个持续的关系疑惑和担忧是否一切都是好的,我必须考虑我自己的心理/情绪.....健康状况和自我尊重

我希望她只鬼。我已经在与某人的关系与双相障碍和强迫症人格障碍自夏季以来,一直试图摆脱它几乎整个时间。我意识到这是个错误,但她每次让我用威胁、恐惧、义务和内疚,坦白说,她让我害怕。我试着真诚地和她说话,她风有恐慌症。我试着休息和一些空间,她觉得被遗弃和伤口的。我希望我可以逃脱。我刚刚发送一个文本,懦夫的出路和很久以前做过,如果她不知道我住的地方,但我不能被疯狂,她的出现和风险,我也不想让她的生活崩溃或她伤害自己。

我的女朋友三年半ghost我。她被诊断出BPD-1大约20年前。我相信她也处理双精神病或躁郁症”特性。“我不认为她知道精神病方面的障碍,她患上了这一点。她的思想创造了交替现实和幻想。她块或压制压力,也使主题或经验。我们都有孩子,决定尝试一起生活。我们讨论了采取这一步骤之前,如果混合家庭没有任何理由,她搬出去了,我们会继续我们的关系。是没有成功,因为不同的教育方式和理念。我们谈论如何给孩子们最好的是我们生活在不同的家庭。 We were in agreement and she said she’d start looking for a new place. After about a month, she hadn’t looked for a place so I asked her about it. She told me that we didn’t have any such conversation. I asked her every couple of months if she was looking and she began changing the topic or ignoring my question all together. There were several heated exchanges after that and finally two years later and more heated exchanges, she looked for and bought a house. She tried to get me to ask her to stay at every step in the process but I held firm. This was in the best interest of our children after all. Once the deal was done, we talked again about how we would continue our relationship. I pointed out that it wouldn’t be too different since her new house was only 6 blocks away. Everything went downhill from there. When it was time to pack and move her belongings she said she was too overwhelmed. I ended up packing and moving all of her stuff. As the move was nearing completion, I was dropping a few things off and noticed that she hadn’t been to bed in many days and was manic. A day later I asked if she was manic and if she should make an appointment with her doctor. She told me that she wasn’t manic. I had moved the last of her things. I hadn’t heard from her in about a week and her mail was piling up. I texted her and asked if I could bring her mail to her. She responded that I was not to call, text, come to her house, or go to her daughter’s school or she would call the police and file for a restraining order against me. I checked in periodically and the threats started coming from her girlfriend. She accused me of stalking and harassing her friend. One of her psychoses is paranoid delusions, the belief that someone is out to get her, wants to cause her harm, or is stalking her, etc. She has vilified me and developed alternate realities to cope with her feelings of rejection, despite my letting her know that I wasn’t rejecting her and that I wanted her in my life forever. I told her we’d live like this for a few years and then when the children are older, I would marry her. Her response was that I was trying to manipulate her. My best guess is that her manic episode triggered her psychosis. She believes the alternate realities her brain has created to cope and has ghosted me ever since. It’s been 9 months and she hasn’t contacted me in any way. I want to reach out and suggest that she talk to her doctor about psychosis but I’m afraid she’ll follow through with her threats and call the police. I don’t believe she will ever realize any of this on her own and I’ve most likely been ghosted for life. She didn’t formally break up with me and the last I heard from her we had a wonderful future ahead of us, then nothing. It is very painful to have the woman I love go from a bright future together to all of this with no contact in 9 months with not so much as an explanation.

有谁知道如果当他们重影你具体地说,他们还张贴在社交媒体吗?我经历了躁狂阶段妇女和她只是停止跟我说话,阻止她发布在facebook上。我不知道发生了什么事。所以我检查有一些共同的朋友,这就是我发现她还发布,主要是她的孩子。我提到我知道她所做的,在一个文本的时候试图找出到底发生了什么。我提到一篇她隐藏起来。接下来我知道她被几个共同的朋友,所以他们看不到前进。她终于解除了街区,伸出3周后。然后她又沉默了两个星期,封锁了!(这是正常的吗?)她说对不起是疯疯癫癫的,她的工作)无论如何也想知道如果它是普通还是文章?

这不仅仅是很难说“这是怎么回事”——正如上面几个人解释道。需要安定下来还是因为你不希望他们看到这样的你。重影告诉别人相反。它说,你的意思是什么,我从来没有,即使是作为一个人更不用说有人我至少说我爱。
也许疾病负责想鬼。
但是你的嘴唇仍然工作或手指写一份报告
难以置信的残酷的对另一个人

我最好的朋友是谁BP2 ghost我。我们进入文本,没有大或疯狂只是一个误会……字面上来回4次总事情也许她是想告诉我,我是误解。年底(甚至不能称之为战斗或分歧)我告诉她谢谢澄清和移动到下一个话题……然后她屏蔽了我的电话,然后我注意到她阻止了我在facebook上!什么我不知道♀️我们确实有实际斗争在过去就给彼此时间,但这一次她阻止了我的生活。Truth be told I’m super hurt I struggle with my own issues (anxiety and PMMD) that take their toll on me and I really don’t need this either. I’ve been there for my friend always and I want to be here now but honestly for my own peace of mind and mental health I may need to just let her go.

我参与一个人双16个月,他就把它在24小时转过来,一分钟我比任何人更爱你下次再见。我离婚了,想等结婚因为他的双相,我看到一些奇怪的行为,但承诺的关系。我已经嫁给了一个男人与主要诊断精神疾病所以迅速跳入婚姻对我来说是不好的。我以前的丈夫另一个家庭在我背后主要的背叛和他作为一个牧师.....是的,真实的。所以我需要时间跟这个人,看看他的双相,合理的请求。也随着时间的流逝,我开始看到一些奇怪的行为,孩子喜欢的行为,像做男孩的声音,将对象在餐桌上变成动物,轻浮的行为,不断成熟的开玩笑,经常和其他更多的风险。那么粗鲁的评论我看但当遇到无法理解如何伤害我,然后继续求我嫁给他,告诉我他有多爱我。然后我在facebook上与女人调情抓到他,发现他在几个谎言。没有得到我一个生日礼物重要的生日,更奇怪的陈述反映滥交行为但对抗时,他就会沉默。显然这是南,他跟他的父母是如何可怕,不会为自己的行为负责,哦,他在一开始,告诉我关于他的双相情感欺骗的方式,然后撒了谎。 Yelled at me in public, having to explain simple things to him and he literally was having trouble with easy tasks, cognitive issues, having to rephrase a sentence so he could understand, major issues, and I did my best to support and prayed as we believed God had brought us together initially and many of these behaviors ramped up recently. Well Obviously I had major reservations, and knew I could not take all of this on, it was not safe. This is not a stable person, so I knew I had to end it, however he did before me. Some of this behavior is bipolar immaturity, impulsively, pressured speech and cognitive impairment from bipolar aging, but some was just plain selfishness, pride and arrogance all wrapped up in a nice package, nice expensive clothing, nice house, nice dinners, you get the picture. People need accountability, we can't act anyway we want and trample others, Obviously he did not act like this in the beginning or I would have walked so if behavior at times can be controlled in the beginning what happened. Glad its over, don't like the sudden turn around but thankful he revealed his true self.

我爱的那个人让我重影。他出现淋浴我的注意力然后消失了好几个月。
上次他甚至要求嫁给我。然后就消失了。他告诉我,他是在一个黑暗的地方。
我对这一切感到如此悲伤。

我7年半的妻子被诊断BP2去年她进入萧条,搬出去,有短的恋情前。她开始药物一段时间后,我们开始把各部分合并起来,她八个月前搬回家。事情已经看似良好,这里或者那里一段时间会持续一两个星期,她会质疑她是否应该在一个关系。在很短的时间之后,她总是会回来。但事情已经顺利到冠状病毒把她在家工作了六个星期。在此期间她开始喝越来越多,晚上8点睡觉的,不是她正常的自我。然后,只要她可以开始回到工作,她告诉我她在另一座城市租了一个公寓30分钟,第二天搬出去。她说如果她不能跟我工作的关系,她将永远不能做一个工作。她说她需要自己的个人空间,需要依靠自己对所有她想要的和需要的东西。她离开才刚刚开始接触三周前,只是偶尔发短信说她对不起或者问我好了。她对我说的最后一件事是,有一天也许我们可以有某种关系。 What? I'm giving her the space she wants but I really think her drinking with her meds may have triggered something. She talked to her doctor but lied when he asked if she'd been drinking. So I'm also wondering if this is the end or just another spell I should try and wait out? There is no easy answer I know.