双相情感障碍和重影:这是一个大问题

我约会过一个变性的男人一个月。一切都很好,但他知道我回到我的国家所以我告诉他,我只是想享受我们所拥有的。我记得我解决边界和解释多少交流对我很重要,我需要有人耐心因为我处理创伤。他似乎可以理解,告诉我多好和巨大的他在交流。
第一次我见到他的时候他总是精力充沛,
制定计划,直到我在这里的最后一天,他甚至想让我去见他的朋友,等等。
然后他开始变得越来越冷,累了,直到有一天他告诉我,他是双相,只是最近开始他的药物。
他告诉我,他很好,只是需要时间来调整。我bipolarism一无所知,也是我第一次约会一个变性人,但是我很高兴他觉得足够舒适的与我分享,告诉他,我很高兴他是照顾自己,无论如何,我是来支持。
我问很多次如果一切都好,我什么都不想深思,要确保有沟通,但他总是说一切都很好没有回问我感觉如何。
几次他想跟我见面,知道我的日程安排是多忙,当我找时间去见他的时候,他是在最后一分钟借口不出现。
他最后一次通过短信编造了一个借口我告诉他,我很抱歉,但它不工作了。
我希望他会尽量弥补这个缺点,尝试修复时间以来的情况我告诉他这是好的但要求他不做了,只是聊天。他ghost我后我的信息,避免对抗和任何形式的对话。他没有阻止我,因为几天之后我试图伸手回来解释自己和告诉他,即使我离开不久关心他,但这并不是正确的就从没有消失,尤其是当他知道交流对我来说是多么的重要。即使,告诉他我的感受,我希望看到或跟他说话他没有回答。
我甚至不明白即使关心在这一点上,我很愚蠢,因为我信任他,和我分享很多事情……我试着告诉自己他只是经历很多事情,但是我不能接受这个事实他无法沟通....

我想弄清楚是怎么回事,我约会的男人,直到上周,并想知道如果这是它。我们约会了几个月,一切都是很好的,我想。我们移动非常缓慢,但我知道他会来的困难从先前的婚姻关系,有两个孩子。我们有一个伟大的连接,他总是十分体贴周到。他整天给我每一天,我的工作很感兴趣,等。我看见他两周前的一个晚上,然后噗。他停止消息,停止响应。我问他发生了什么短信和他说忙。我知道这似乎并不正确,他坚持认为一切都很好。第二天,他给我一个文本说他不得不取消我们的计划的第二天晚上,他太忙了。虽然我回答说,我是非常伤害他将结束在文本,甚至不打电话,他说他很抱歉,但仍没有电话。 At some point my friend (not at my prompting) urged him to call me b/c she could tell how distressed I was by the lack of closure. He said something like ok, but did not. I can't make heads or tails of it. Did I do something? did he have something going on I didn't know about? I did notice he would get obsessive about various subjects, and he admitted it was a thing for him. He also mentioned taking prozac at one point. Could there be much more going on than I knew?

什么对我来说是最困难的是不知道。我们已经交往了5个月,他已经ghost我过去6天。几个月前他告诉我他有抑郁症和英国石油(BP)使用适应症。我注意到他将hyperfocus在政治问题上,肯定有一些偏执。但这是非常令人担忧。他有一个粗略的几个月里,火灾中失去了自己的位置,真的一直在苦苦挣扎。我们只见面一次一个月左右就将所有的垃圾,和他住几小时从我身边带走。我觉得很难知道如果这只是他需要空间,因为他有这么多废话。他一直处于困境,但是我们只是很热情,情感周末和他告诉我的事都是正确的。几天后,然后“噗”他强调工作和没有回短信。 This was just so out of character, that I thought he must have broken his phone , or gotten hurt . We literally text all the time , for hours . I couldn’t believe that the very same man who had shared so much with me and been so vulnerable with me would just walk away. Honestly I’m a bit heart broken and so lost and confused. Part of me thinks he just needs some time to sort things out, but the longer it gets without hearing from him , I just think he’s gone . So then of course , I doubt my ability to know someone . We have had such an connection on every level . I feel very taken advantage of . Because we literally talked all the time about the future .
我猜我只是想确定,我生气,给他一顿如何伤害我,这可能只会推开他。还是我只是给他空间和希望他回来,,直到他没有联系他。这尤其艰难,因为他是第一个人我已经约会过自4年前的23年的婚姻。讨论重大信任问题在这!

我感觉你的每一个人。我已经看到一个大约3个月了,wvery 5 - 6周就消失在我。这里也没有解释。他告诉我,他有双相2和我说我还想要和他一起给他。
我已经告诉他很多次我在这里的好与坏。当我们在一起,一切都好很好。他告诉我他有多喜欢我,他与我多少多少他赞赏我。
但后来他消失了3 - 4周没有发送我一个消息,回复我,甚至让我知道他的好。我告诉他,如果他需要时间,但也不错,每次这样我担心生病。我只是想知道他还活着,而不是死在沟里。
我真的很喜欢这个人,这就是为什么我把这。但让我最困扰的是感觉,如果我需要他对我不会有。如果我去了医院,真的不舒服或struggeling他也不在乎,因为他在一个黑暗的地方,忽视世界上其他wverything。
我真的不知道该做什么了。我目前在赛季2周4他重影我. .想我就等他回来然后和他谈谈

结婚30年。今年的丈夫被诊断。他有重影我,我们住在同一个房子里。10年。我只是照顾,认为只要孩子和孩子们都出了房子,我们会单独或生活像我们的室友。他在药物以来做得更好,但重影仍然会发生。我提醒他我还在这里你是否想要我。

我的男朋友是双相情感和自我用药。他一直把他买的东西在液态下舌头。这并不理想,但似乎确实帮助他和我在的地方如果它帮助我买下它了。整个夏天他开始陷入旧的负面行为,当他狂躁的意思和咄咄逼人。在我所做的一切都说,他批评我,叫我的名字。几周前,他开始将实验氯胺酮治疗的精神科医生。之前,他着迷于减肥和禁食。他减掉了20磅,快48到72小时一次一周一次。他不停地食物羞辱我,想让我在他的节食。然后他补充道克他命的,是不可容忍的,意味着所有的时间。 Last week I picked him up from an appointment and he picked a fight with me, said a bunch of hurtful things and broke up with me. I went to his house and gathered my things and left. We didn’t talk all week. He sent me a message that night reminding of an obligation I had in the morning. I didn’t respond and I didn’t make the obligation either. I ran into him a few times that week at work (yes we work at the same company so there’s that) the first time we shared an elevator and made pleasant small talk. After I felt ashamed for even being nice to him after how he treated me so the next few times I just ignored him altogether. He messaged me on fb that night and said he missed me and wished I’d come over for some jalapeño poppers he’d made. Then the next day we chatted and he seemed like he was having regret and was still even considering coming on my trip for my bday in October. I tried to reach out the next day but he ignored me. Then I had asked about a couple of things I forgot to grab from his house, I said I’d leave my car unlocked and he could just leave them in my car at work l. That way if he didn’t want to talk he didn’t have to. Days went by and nothing. No returner stuff and no response. I waited a few more days to give him space then I messaged him again. This time on fb messenger so I could at least see if he was reading my messages. I said if he needs more time let me know. If it’s done and he doesn’t want to talk again at least let me know and return my things but either way please don’t leave me hanging. I’ve done nothing to deserve that. Read the message but no response. Even fb says we are still “in a relationship” he hasn’t told his family whom I’m close to and I wanted to give him the opportunity to either figure it out and or tell them first. He has had a history or being in w relationship and then ghosting her. I don’t know what this is or what he wants. I feel like I’m going crazy and not sure what to do

我已经完全忽视了3个月。它真的帮助我读这篇文章,读大家的评论。经历离婚14年之后。痛苦的。谢谢大家。

我需要帮助。我不能区分我的男朋友被双极或只是一个混蛋。我们一直以来被3个月约会。前几周他惊人的,发短信我日夜。总是想见面,然后突然一个月后,他已我5天,然后显示备份没有解释。我原谅了他,然后我们继续再一个月后他鬼我。他会表现出很大的情绪波动。他吃一次24-36小时。他几乎每天做噩梦。我们没有问题或任何战斗。 Hes calling me baby one day and then a few hours later he just disappeared. Its been 10 days and ive heard nothing back from him. He posted once on his snapchat story and he knows i can see it but he didnt even care. Idk if im making excuses for him or this is really his disorder.

我已经在和别人同居浪漫关系,2双相情感障碍。我们在一起4年了,这是一个绝对的情感过山车。她是我遇到的第一个人患有双相情感障碍所以我无能的一段时间。我才开始意识到什么是她情绪稳定了几个月的关系,因为她是真的很擅长隐藏自己的情感。后来我开始注意她的躁狂充满活力和抑郁发作,但是我一直认为这是她的性格的一部分,由于她的过去与家人和过去的创伤与费用的关系。她告诉我,她与她的父母是破碎关系的原因她18岁时搬出去。我遇见她时,她20岁的时候,我当时21岁,我有严厉的父母,我想逃离了一机遇与她一起生活。我爱上了她的甜蜜,爱,善良和真诚的人格。我总是忽略了野蛮的一面她性急地口头谩骂,操纵,可恨的,充满了不必要的投诉。大约半年到我们的同居关系我意识到她情感人格是一种精神疾病,双相情感障碍。 Upon realizing this i was already emotionally invested and had told her that i would try to always be commited to understanding her bipolar disorder. Our whole relationship has been respectfully great. We had spent almost everyday together working multiple jobs for the past 4 years to make ends meet paying the bills and rent. We would always get stoned and go on dinner dates. She would go out of her way to do things for me as she was full of surprises on our monthsaries. She would always assure our relationship and would tell me I was the one she loved the most. She was quite responsible always cooking,cleaning, doing laundry, etc. I've seen her struggle with her depressive epsiodes and i've always comforted her with hugs and kisses. Like any other relationships we've had really bad arguments, but we both maturely always manage to come to an agreement and accept our faults. 4 years into the relationship i really believed that she was a person that i could have a future with and eventually get married. Then came a turning point to our relationship. We both started working at a marijuana grow op and she had started smoking excessively and drank energy drinks every single day for a month straight. I believe the high amount of caffeine worsened her anxiety and ability to cope through her mood swings. She had also met a new co-worker that i have noticed they have gotten uncomfortably close and his intentions were clear that he likes her. I've confronted her about and she claims that they are nothing more than friends. I've even caught her texting him it was nothing sexual but she tried to hide his phone number by saving it under her girlfriend's name. Her excuse was so i dont get butt hurt about it. After work she would be emotionally exhausted and she slowly started to drift away from me. I also had a gut feeling that she caught feelings for this other coworker of ours. We both ended up getting laid off from the job and thats when she was a complete emotiotional wreck. Out of nowhere, out of the god damn blue she was saying she needed space to be alone and that she was feeling alot of pain and hurt inside and she could no longer give me love and that its not my fault. She brought up how she wanted to move back with her abusive parents and that we give eachother space for a month for her to better herself, which made no sense at all. I have been the one supporting her and basically being her therapist for 4 years. Anyways she proposed that we give eachother space for a month and not talk to eachother at all and after she gets to decide if she was better enough to keep our relationship going. I had a gut feeling that she wanted to GHOST me after that one month. So i confronted her about this "space" she wanted and what her intentions were and she literally told me that our relationship is coming to an end. Im 25 years old now , scratching my head asking myself what did i get myself into.

人们在欣赏一集善良和/或令人鼓舞的消息,而在一集/拉/被关闭?即使他们可能没有回应?

你好所有的,
它永远不会结束。它将发生一遍又一遍。
不要把任何经济上他们的名字,让尽快运行
它从不停止

我和我的搭档一起为8个月一切都好花每天晚上我们一起买了礼物好我们一起很好我最好的伙伴,他说。我们有一些参数如我们都做他近来废话很多失去了房子,猫去他爸爸的,是努力工作然后他撞他的车压力然后他现在拍下来悲伤抑郁崩溃。总冲击他像变了一个人。我们不生活在一起,但因为他的疾病现在我们再也见不到彼此或听到他。冲击一切伟大的就像他责备我了一切他认为他的配偶家庭不是我。上个月是很难的我哭了不睡他驱逐出境。我甚至想着你送卡每周一周一次上升下降他邻舍的礼包给从未得到了谢谢。然后惊喜周前我们见面可以看出他不是我新下伤心的男人。但他买了新卡车的头发做的新衣服。然后说冲击也许我们成为朋友我说不,我不想那样。 I cried so much when I got home. Was that low surprised I thought this it im sick of this. I've stood by you now this. I was at one point thought my life ended told him in a text im done I dint get a reply. Not even next day. For all he new I could be dead on floor. He replied back im ill I don't need all this crap I said all about you. WHAT has happened to this guy. what do I do driving me mad week now no contact ???? I think he got Bioplar

我已经在一年和一个双相的关系。在此期间我看到并支持一些最严重的高点和低点,他含蓄地信任我。这一次不过是一集已经酝酿,他已决定采取个人犯罪评论我自己了,和一些如何完全扭曲的这是一个对他的批评。我花了几个小时试图安抚,坚决支持,但它是不够的。结果非常令人讨厌的名字叫采取阻止我无处不在。很令人担忧的行为不知道如果他好等但我也相信我们都需要休息。有点希望在某种程度上,他将开启我们还可以讨论,但也为最坏情况做准备。很难过给我们如何连接惊人和彼此相爱很深但不禁觉得也许这是最好的。显然我不是他所需要的或我们不会是今天

这是有助于发现别人在同一条船上。我已经在很长一段距离关系和关闭了17年。我开始跟这个家伙在我13岁的时候。他有一个损坏的童年,和他的妈妈死于癌症我们15时,紧随其后的是他的父亲自杀后不久,爸爸从他的步骤和滥用。他非常坏了。我们谈了几个小时每天晚上和靠彼此通过我们的青少年。23岁,我父亲被确诊为癌症晚期,当我告诉我的家伙,他无法处理的痛苦消失了5年。我无法跟踪他。最终我从英国移居加拿大,有一天,当他发现他的老社交媒体账户已经激活。我们回来联系,就像什么事也没有发生过。 He told me he was diagnosed with bipolar shortly after my dad passed away in 2014 and was in a bad way, but he had kept an eye on my progress and thought I hated him for leaving me, so he thought I’d be better off. We fell back in love and he made many attempts to visit me in Canada although his anxiety and mentality stopped him every time. After a year, I decided to fly back to England to bring him back with me. We both quit our jobs and decided to start a fresh together in Canada even though this was during the pandemic.
自从回到英国,我们还没有在一起。他有很多抑郁发作,现在ghost我约6倍在过去6个月,有时由于covid,或他的祖父的死。它伤害了我每次他因为我总是焦虑他不会回来。他现在走了10天。不是时间最长,但它是一个挣扎在这里没有收入,通过这些艰难时期需要回家。他是我一生的挚爱,当事情是好的,我们非常强大的和爱。但它确实对自己的心理健康造成损害。我试图理解,我从来没有给他的感觉,我将考虑放弃他。我们比任何人都更好地互相了解,这对我很重要,他知道他应该得到爱情和幸福就像其他人一样。但我的心与所有这些障碍。 There is someone out there who will prioritise you. You just need to let them help you.

我的故事是相似的重影,他的不安。他开车回家在午夜后一个想象中的轻微/两大杯葡萄酒后完全不合逻辑。不会接电话一整夜,第二天。我们一起买了回来。我有许多戏剧、痛苦和不成熟的例子。我们只约会了4个月,但他非常非常爱和甜蜜的心情。我从未被允许有自己的情绪/他不能处理它和他们比他的温和。他侮辱我如此糟糕的那天晚上我们爬上床。我整夜流泪,一波又一波的压力。我恳求他道歉,他坚称他的意思,“这并不是说坏”。 The entire 4 months have been either extremely loving or extremely irritable. That day I made him leave his key and take his things out of my house. All he had to do was acknowledge my pain. I just don’t understand it but it’s on par with the whole way the relationship has been. This happened yesterday and although I feel relief I still love him and want to make sure he’s ok. He is ignoring my texts and phone calls completely. I’m sure by now I’m “against him” like “everybody else”. I know in my heart I did the right thing because I’m recovering from a car accident and I also have my own mental health to worry about. I know my life with him would be very hard. It’s all so painful. I hope he sticks with his new therapist and that we can work it out one day. If anyone would like to answer this post I would really appreciate it. He’s such a tortured soul who literally does not know how to have a respectful, adult conversation geared towards resolution. Instead he just escalates. I feel my own mental health regressing.

感谢每一个人分享你的故事。我有几个人在我的生命中双相脱节。当服用药物后他们可以看起来功能正常。我有一个朋友,可以追溯到60年。我们已经关闭。大约5年前,我注意到她的古怪行为。我们并不是生活在同一个城市这变得明显时,她访问了美国。过滤,没有界限的行为非常令人震惊。我不会进入细节,但5天后,和口语和她的家人来到地表。她说她没有带足够的药物。 Whether or not that was true she had people feeling like babysitters before she went home. She would have periods of normalcy. For a time afterwards she lived with her daughter and that not working well for the household she went to a half way house of a sort where meds would be sorted. Then she finally got her own place. Our friendship has been through many phases. I decided to move nearby because I had not recognized patterns to her behavior changing and getting worse over time. We had many conversations where she seemed herself, doing the right thing to get help. Now that I am here, after and for many months she has cut me out of her life. I was hurt at first even angry. I am approaching indifferent as I have decided to cut ties with her. It is too much of a roller coaster. Also my husband and I will be moving back to where we came from. I read somewhere a statement that addresses this issue very well. Having bipolar doesn’t give you a free pass to treat friends with no respect. So we move on. She is on meds, found a new therapist and has a life even in the pandemic. The difference is I am not in it, but it is my choice not hers.

哇!所有的这是非常深刻的,至少可以说非常明确。雷竞技是骗人的最近开始约会的童年爱我认识近30年来从未知道BP,直到几个月前。重影在一起生活现在已经持续了3周,考虑到非常有意的日常通信一整天来一个很突然的停止在很多层面上提出了红旗。读完这些文章/经验为了教育自己,我不确定这是我想要我的生活在一个持续的关系疑惑和担忧是否一切都是好的,我必须考虑我自己的心理/情绪.....健康状况和自我尊重