你好奥利维亚，我很想有一个在线支持小组。我刚和一个人结束了两年的恋爱，我们一起发现她已经结婚了。我在某处读到过，无论你和DID患者的关系过去是什么样子，都将是永远的样子。我不愿相信，但这是真的。我不在乎一个人有多在意你深爱的人，如此亲近的人，不知从哪里说出残酷和痛苦的事情，过了一段时间，就会产生怨恨。她处理信息的方式也不同。里面有很多人。是的，有些人想离开你。有人容忍你，有人爱你，有人根本不喜欢你。这就是DID。 For me the issue is denial. I want her to be with me. I want to love and support her, I want a secure loving relationship with her. More than anything else. I do believe there are a few in there that want the same with me but it's not that easy there are others who are over me and have moved on. And it does hurt. About the time I would exhale and think we are going to be ok someone else would show up who didn't care if I was breathing. It is very confusing and painful. So many different personalities. And she doesn't get to pick who is out. I come read this blog when my feelings have been hurt with her. If this was someone else who treated me this way I wouldn't have stood for it. I have compassion for her being a survivor. I am amazed by her strength and courage. I have so much respect for her and I miss my girlfriend. I am emotionally beat up. Negotiating relationships is tough but doing it with someone who has DID. Well that all depends on who you are talking to.