Lost_Soul
乔治
谢谢你们的回复。说实话，我没什么特别的。只是一个爱着病人的人。在这一刻，我失去了一点希望。我听说他写了一首诗给他的前任，哀叹他将如何永远爱她，并把它上传到facebook上，尽管他们分手很糟糕。在我们见面之前，他也做过同样的事情，我确实理解反刍是这种疾病抑郁一面的一部分。她住在另一个州，他们已经没有联系了，而且分手已经近两年了，但还是很疼。我认为在这一点上，尽管他几个月前就开始用药了，但他还是很不舒服。他还没有回到课堂，我甚至不确定他是否会回来。我一直在给一位在网上开博客的躁郁症先生发邮件，他真的帮我了解了这种疾病。 The one thing he continues to reiterated to me is that I can not take anything an unwell bipolar says, does or thinks personally as the mind is feeding him lies. The one thing I am certain of is that he was baseline when we met as he took several months to even ask me out and took it slow. He never made any claims of love or grandiose plans so I feel that his emotions towards me were real. Whether he will get those back remains to be seen as I have heard that it could take months to years for him to find the right blend of medicine. My friend has suggested that I keep in touch even if I have to show up unannounced and beat on his door but to keep it on a friend basis but at this point I am not real comfortable with that approach. For now I am giving it a few more months ( it's been 3 already) and then will most likely move on if things don't show signs of improving. At this point really all I can do. You both sound like great guys and I am sure there is someone out there for you. I truly believe the key to the illness is acceptance and consistency with adhering to meds and therapy. I feel like he is a step ahead because of his willingness to do those things.